God’s Commands For the
Family
Josiahs Scott,
Josiahs@trueconnection.org,
www.TrueConnection.org
1/9/2004; 10/21/07; 7/10/08; 10/27/08; 1/27/10
Part of a 3-Part Series: (1) “Family Commands”; (2) “Submission”; (3) “Biblical Bowing”
Complete Table of Contents
The Profound Mystery of Marriage. 1
The Courageous Wife, Suffering Under a Lost
Husband2
Lots of Children Are a Blessing3
Children – From Reproach to Reward4
Also Consider The Blessing of
Celibacy4
Labor & Delivery Verses –
Verses for Women to be Saved Through Labor4
Coming of Age / Bar Mitzvah. 7
Requirements for Boys to Become
Men7
Autonomous Responsibility &
Authority8
Extended Obedience to Parents. 8
Abortion Linked With Idolatry10
This Bible study is the main resource that I use for couples who need marriage help, and it goes well with the "Submission" Bible Study in exhorting and helping couples fight for Biblical families. [Premarital couples: See Official Premarital Bible Study (below) for powerful Truth in pursuing purity]. When you add the Divorce and Remarriage teaching to this, it becomes even more helpful in propelling you to fight for your first marriage because God Himself defends it, makes it permanent for life no matter what, and shows that remarriage is never an option apart from death.
Eph_5:22-33 EMTV Wives, subject yourselves to
your own husbands, as to the Lord, 23 because the husband is head of the wife, as
also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 But
just as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives be to their own
husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your own wives, just as
Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 in order that He might sanctify her,
cleansing her by the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a
glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she
should be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands ought to love their own
wives as their own bodies; he that loves his own wife loves himself. 29 For
no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as also
the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body, of His
flesh and of His bones. 31 "For this reason a man shall
leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become
one flesh." 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak
in reference to Christ and to the church.
33 Nevertheless you also individually,
let each one love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she
respect her husband.
Eph_6:1-4 EMTV Children, obey your parents in the
Lord, for this is right. 2 "Honor your father and
mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: 3 "that it may be well with you, and you
may live long on the earth." 4 And fathers, do not provoke your
children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and admonition of the
Lord… 12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood,
but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness
of this age, against spiritual forces
of evil in the heavenlies.
Col_3:16-21 WEB Let
the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing
one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your
heart to the Lord. 17 Whatever you do, in word or in deed,
do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through
him. 18
Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the
Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and don't
be bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in all
things, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, don't provoke your children,
so that they won't be discouraged.
Tit_2:4-5 EMTV so that they may
urge the young women to be lovers of their husbands, lovers of their
children, 5
temperate, pure, homemakers, good, submitting to their own husbands,
lest the word of God be blasphemed.
1Ti_3:4-5 EMTV one
ruling his own house well, having his children in
submission with all reverence; 5 (for if one does not know how to rule his own
house, how will he take care of the church of God?);
1Ti_3:11-12 EMTV Likewise their wives must be
reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things. 12 Let
deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling
their children well, and their own houses.
1Pe_3:1-7 EMTV Wives,
likewise, subject yourselves to your own husbands, so that even if some are
disobedient to the word, that
by the conduct of their wives, without a word, they shall be gained for Christ, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct with
fear. 3 Of whom let it not be the outward
adorning of braiding of hair, and wearing of gold, or of putting on of fine
clothes, 4
rather let it be
the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible attitude of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very
precious before God. 5 For
thus formerly, the holy women who hoped on God also adorned themselves,
subjecting themselves to their own husbands,
6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, of
whom you became children, when you do good and are not afraid of any
terror. 7 Husbands, likewise, live together
according to knowledge as with a weaker vessel, with the wife, showing her
honor as also a fellow heir of the grace of life, in order that your prayers
may not be hindered.
Main Contents: Intro | Husbands and Wives
| Children
These are my shorthand, personal
notes of Bible verses for Children
Exo_20:12 WEB Honor
your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which
Yahweh your God gives you.
Lev 19:3 WEB " 'Each one of you shall respect his mother and his father. You shall keep my Sabbaths. I am Yahweh your God.
Lev 19:3 LB Let everyone of you reverence his father and his mother; and you shall keep My Sabbaths: I am the Lord your God.
Lev 19:3 ἕκαστος
πατέρα αὐτοῦ
καὶ μητέρα αὐτοῦ
φοβείσθω, καὶ τὰ
σάββατά μου
φυλάξεσθε· ἐγὼ
κύριος ὁ θεὸς ὑμῶν.
Pro_15:5 MKJV A fool despises his
father's instruction, but he who listens to correction is wise.
Pro_23:22 WEB Listen
to your father who gave you life, And don't despise
your mother when she is old.
Pro_30:17 WEB The
eye that mocks at his father, And scorns obedience to his mother: The ravens of
the valley shall pick it out, The young eagles shall eat it.
Pro_1:8 WEB My
son, listen to your father's instruction, And don't forsake your mother's
teaching:
Other dates; 3/10/17-3/13/17
Psa_127:1-5, esp. Psa_127:3-5
Psa_128:1-4, esp. Psa_128:3-4;
Pro_17:6;
Gen_1:28 – Original multiplication blessing
Gen_15:4 – Abraham’s desperation for children
Gen_15:5 – Abraham: look at stars
Gen_24:60 – Rebekah: Mother of thousands
Gen_30:1-2 – Rachel: “give me children or I die!”
Gen_33:5 – Jacob's Divinely multiplied Kids
Gen_41:50-52, Gen_48:4 – Joseph's Kids
Gen_50:23 – Joseph's Great Grand kids
Deu_28:4, etc. – fruit of body blessed
Jos_24:3-4, etc. – your father Abraam... multiplied... seed
1Sa_1:1-18, 1Sa_1:19-20, 1Sa_1:27, etc. – Hannah: 1st Son: Samuel
1Sa_2:20, 1Sa_2:21 – Hannah: 3 more sons & 2 daughters
1Ch_28:5 – God Gave David Many Sons
Isa_8:18 – Isiah's Prophetic Children Signs
Job_1:2, Job_42:12-16 – Job's Children
Gen_30:22-23 – Rachel's reproach taken away
1Sa_1:5-6, etc. – Hannah (as seen previously)
Luk_1:24-25 – Elizabeth's reproach taken away
Isa_54:1-4; Mat_19:10-12; 1Co_7:1; 1Co_7:6-9; 1Co_7:25-38;
My spiritual wife’s favorite verses for having
faith and hope when seeking to be courageous in birthing children
My wife compiled the following verses (in conjunction of our proclamation) which I compiled, quoted, and enhanced for this Bible Study.
My wife said: “the following are 7 of my "favorite" Bible verses for labor (aside from my current Psalms of Degrees obsession).”
Heb_11:11 – by faith Sarah was
given power to throw down seed
Heb_11:11 GRV [Dative:
to/for/in/at/with (by)]
πιστει
G4102 N-DSF
και G2532
CONJ αυτη
G846 P-NSF
σαρρα
G4564 N-NSF στειρα
G4723 N-NSFα δυναμιν
G1411 N-ASF εις G1519
PREP καταβολην
G2602 N-ASF
σπερματος
G4690 N-GSN ελαβεν
G2983 V-2AAI-3S
και G2532
CONJ παρα
G3844 PREP
καιρον
G2540 N-ASM ηλικιας
G2244 N-GSF [biggness/size/stature/adulthood/maturity
-- ἡλικία (St G2244: maturity; WS: adulthood) < ἡλίκος
(St G2245: as big as…how much;
WS: How great (Col_2:1;
Jas_3:5
{AMGL: Gal_6:11});
AMGL: what sized, what, how great, how small)
< ἧλιξ (St: a comrade,
that is, one of the same age; WS: adult); (Mat_6:34:
αρκετον)] ετεκεν
G5088 V-2AAI-3Sτσβ
επει
G1893 CONJ
πιστον
G4103 A-ASM ηγησατο
G2233 V-ADI-3S τον G3588
T-ASM επαγγειλαμενον
G1861 V-ADP-ASM
Mat_24:21-22 – Days cut short for
elect’s sake else no one would be saved
Mat_24:21 GRV εσται G2071 V-FXI-3S γαρ G1063 CONJ τοτε G5119 ADV θλιψις G2347 N-NSF [comp.
Joh_16:21] μεγαλη G3173 A-NSF οια G3634 R-NSF [St:
“such or what sort of”
AMGL: “what sort or manner of,
such as” (as WS)] ου G3756 PRT-N γεγονεν G1096 V-2RAI-3S απ G575 PREP αρχης G746 N-GSF κοσμου G2889 N-GSM εως G2193 CONJ του G3588 T-GSM νυν G3568 ADV ουδ G3761 ADV ου G3756 PRT-N μη G3361 PRT-N γενηται G1096 V-2ADS-3S
Mat_24:22 GRV
και G2532
CONJ ει
G1487 COND μη G3361
PRT-N εκολοβωθησαν
G2856 V-API-3P [pruned/checked/restrained;
St: G2849: dwarf/curtail > G2856: (figuratively) abridge:
- shorten (~ cut short)] αι
G3588 T-NPF ημεραι
G2250 N-NPF εκειναι
G1565 D-NPF ουκ G3756
PRT-N αν G302
PRT εσωθη
G4982 V-API-3S
πασα G3956
A-NSF σαρξ
G4561 N-NSF δια G1223
PREP δε
G1161 CONJ τους
G3588 T-APM εκλεκτους
G1588 A-APM [ἐκ,
ἐξ + λέγω] κολοβωθησονται
G2856 V-FPI-3P
αι G3588
T-NPF ημεραι
G2250 N-NPF εκειναι
G1565 D-NPF
[(A)
AMGL G2849: prune. 2. to check, restrain. 3. to chastise,
correct, punish; (B) WS: κολάζω kolázō; fut. kolásomai, from
kólos (n.f.), abridged, shortened.
To mutilate, prune, such as trees. Metaphorically, to correct, moderate.
In the NT, and generally, to discipline, punish, with the acc. (Act_4:21;
2Pe_2:9,
meaning to reserve as subject to punishment). Also from kólos
(n.f.): kōlúō (G2967), to cut off,
weaken, hinder.
(C)
WS: maimed, cut off. To cut off, mutilate (Sept.: 2Sa_4:12).
In the NT, used of time in the pass., meaning to cut off, shorten (Mat_24:22;
Mar_13:20).
-- (D) AMGL: to cut off, amputate
(LXX), hence, to curtail, shorten
(E) VGNT: properly = “amputate”…“maimed,” “mutilated,”]
Mat 22:13 Then the king
said to the servants, 'Tie him up hands and feet, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness;
there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'
Mat 22:13 τότε εἶπεν ὁ βασιλεὺς τοῖς διακόνοις·
δήσαντες
αὐτοῦ πόδας καὶ χεῖρας ἄρατε αὐτὸν
καὶ ἐκβάλετε
εἰς τὸ
σκότος τὸ ἐξώτερον·
ἐκεῖ ἔσται ὁ κλαυθμὸς
καὶ ὁ βρυγμὸς
τῶν ὀδόντων.
Mat 22:13 τοτε TSBειπεν
ο βασιλευς
Aειπεν
τοις διακονοις
δησαντες
αυτου ποδας και χειρας TSBαρατε TSBαυτον TSBκαι
εκβαλετε Aαυτον εις το σκοτος το
εξωτερον εκει εσται
ο κλαυθμος
και ο βρυγμος
των οδοντων
Mat 22:14 "For many
are called, but few are chosen."
Mat 22:14 πολλοὶ
γάρ εἰσι
κλητοὶ, ὀλίγοι δὲ ἐκλεκτοί.
Rth_4:11 – Blessing to Make You
as Those Who Worked Mightiness in Ephrathah
Rth_4:11 WEB All the people who ·were
[KJV:
were]
in the gate, and the elders, said, ·We are [KJV:
We are]
witnesses. Yahweh make the woman who has come into
your house like Rachel and like Leah, which two built the house of Israel: and ·treat
you worthily [“חיל ועשׂה” – do (you?) mightiness]*
in Ephrathah, and be famous in Bethlehem:
[* MT: “חיל”
“ועשׂה” – KJV: do thou worthily; YLT: do thou
virtuously; NKJV: may you prosper; DRB (VUL): that she may be an example of
virtue; NIV (Not Inspired Version): May you have standing]
Rth_4:11 LB (LXX) And all the
people who were in the gate said, ·“We are witnesses” [Μάρτυρες]; and the elders [πρεσβύτεροι] said, “The Lord ·make [Δῴη] your wife [τὴν γυναῖκά
σου] who goes
into your house, as Rachel and as Leah, who both together built the house of
Israel, and wrought mightily in Ephratha [ἐποίησανV-AAI-3P δύναμινN-ASF – ABP: did
powerfully in Ephratah; CT (LXX): and laid the foundation of power in Ephratha], and there shall be a name to you in Bethlehem.
Rth_4:11 καὶ εἴποσαν
πᾶς ὁ λαὸς οἱ ἐν
τῇ πύλῃ Μάρτυρες.
καὶ οἱ πρεσβύτεροι
εἴποσαν Δῴη κύριος
τὴν γυναῖκά
σου τὴν εἰσπορευομένην
εἰς τὸν οἶκόν
σου ὡς Ραχηλ καὶ
ὡς Λειαν, αἳ ᾠκοδόμησαν
ἀμφότεραι τὸν
οἶκον Ισραηλ
καὶ ἐποίησαν δύναμιν
ἐν Εφραθα, καὶ ἔσται
ὄνομα ἐν
Βαιθλεεμ·
Rth 4:11 καιG2532 CONJ ειποσανV-AAI-3P παςG3956 A-NSM οG3588 T-NSM λαοςG2992 N-NSM οιG3588 T-NPM ενG1722 PREP τηG3588 T-DSF πυληG4439 N-DSF μαρτυρεςG3144 N-NPM καιG2532 CONJ οιG3588 T-NPM πρεσβυτεροιG4245 A-NPMC ειποσανV-AAI-3P δωηG1325 V-AAO-3S κυριοςG2962 N-NSM τηνG3588 T-ASF γυναικαG1135 N-ASF σουG4771 P-GSM τηνG3588 T-ASF εισπορευομενηνG1531 V-PMPAS ειςG1519 PREP τονG3588 T-ASM οικονG3624 N-ASM σουG4771 P-GSM ωςG3739 CONJ ραχηλN-PRI καιG2532 CONJ ωςG3739 CONJ λειανN-PRI αιG3739 R-NPF ωκοδομησανG3618 V-AAI-3P αμφοτεραιA-NPF τονG3588 T-ASM οικονG3624 N-ASM ισραηλG2474 N-PRI καιG2532 CONJ εποιησανG4160 V-AAI-3P δυναμινG1411 N-ASF ενG1722 PREP εφραθαN-PRI καιG2532 CONJ εσταιG1510 V-FMI-3S ονομαG3686 N-NSN ενG1722 PREP βαιθλεεμN-PRI
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Rth_4:11 ויאמרוH559 said, כלH3605 And all העםH5971 the people אשׁרH834 that בשׁערH8179 in the gate, והזקניםH2205 and the elders, עדיםH5707 witnesses. יתןH5414 make יהוהH3068 The LORD אתH853 האשׁהH802 the woman הבאהH935 that is come אלH413 into ביתךH1004 thine house כרחלH7354 like Rachel וכלאהH3812 and like Leah, אשׁרH834 which בנוH1129 did build שׁתיהםH8147 two אתH853 ביתH1004 the house ישׂראלH3478 of Israel: ועשׂהH6213 and do חילH2428 thou worthily באפרתהH672 in Ephratah, וקראH7121 and be famous שׁםH8034 and be famous בבית לחם׃H1035 in Bethlehem:
Rth_4:11 vayo`m'ru cal ´ ha,aM `a$er ´ ba$a,ar v'haz'kaniyM ,adiyM yiTaN y'hvah `eT ´ ha`i$ah haba`ah `el ´
bayTeCa
c'raHal
uk'la`ah `a$er banu $'TayheM `eT ´ bayT yiS'ra`al va,aSah
´ Hayil b'`ef'raTah uk'ra`
´ $aM b'VayT laHeM
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1Ti_2:15 – They will be Saved in Childbearing if they Continue in...
1Ti_2:15 GRV σωθησεται*
G4982 V-FPI-3S δε G1161
CONJ δια
G1223 PREP της G3588
T-GSF τεκνογονιας
G5042 N-GSF
εαν G1437
COND μεινωσιν
G3306 V-AAS-3P εν G1722
PREP πιστει
G4102 N-DSF
και G2532
CONJ αγαπη
G26 N-DSF
και G2532
CONJ αγιασμω
G38 N-DSM μετα
G3326 PREP σωφροσυνης
G4997 N-GSF
[* Saved: from Gen_3:16: (A) λύπαςN-APF…(B) στεναγμόνN-ASM… {θλιψεως (Joh_16:21)} (A) λύπαιςN-DPF ]
1Ti_5:14
CAB Therefore I desire that the younger
widows to marry, to bear children
[τεκνογονεῖν], to
manage the house, to give no opportunity to the adversary because of reproach.
1Ti_5:14
βούλομαι οὖν
νεωτέρας
γαμεῖν, τεκνογονεῖν,
οἰκοδεσποτεῖν,
μηδεμίαν ἀφορμὴν
διδόναι τῷ
ἀντικειμένῳ
λοιδορίας
χάριν.
Gen_3:16
WEB To the woman he said, "I will
greatly multiply your pain in childbirth. In pain you will bring forth
children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over
you."
Gen_3:16
CAB And to the woman He said, “I will
greatly multiply [Πληθύνων
πληθυνῶ] your pains [λύπας
– AMGL: pain of body or mind, grief, sorrow ; LJS: sad plight or condition] and
your groanings [στεναγμόν]; in
pain [λύπαις] ·you shall bring forth
children [τέξῃ τέκνα], and your
submission shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you.”
Gen_3:16 καὶ τῇ
γυναικὶ εἶπεν Πληθύνων
πληθυνῶ τὰς λύπαςN-APF σου καὶ τὸν
στεναγμόνN-ASM σου, ἐν λύπαιςN-DPF τέξῃ G5088 V-FMI-2S
τέκνα G5043 N-APN· καὶ
πρὸς τὸν ἄνδρα
σου ἡ ἀποστροφή
σου, καὶ αὐτός
σου κυριεύσει.
λυπαςG3077 N-APF σουG4771 P-GS καιG2532 CONJ τονG3588 T-ASM στεναγμονG4726 N-ASM σουG4771 P-GS ενG1722 PREP λυπαιςG3077 N-DPF
Luk_8:50 – No fear, Only Believe.
And Salvation will Happen
Luk_8:50 GRV ο G3588 T-NSM δε G1161 CONJ ιησους
G2424 N-NSM
ακουσας
G191 V-AAP-NSM
απεκριθη G611 V-ADI-3S
αυτω G846 P-DSM λεγων G3004 V-PAP-NSMτσβ μη G3361 PRT-N φοβου
G5399 V-PNM-2S
μονον G3440 ADV πιστευσον G4100 V-AAM-2Sα πιστευε G4100 V-PAM-2Sτσβ και G2532 CONJ σωθησεται G4982 V-FPI-3S
See: Mar_5:36
Jam_5:15 – Prayer Of Faith Will Raise Up The Exhausted One
Jas_5:15 GRV και G2532 CONJ η G3588 T-NSF ευχη G2171 N-NSF της G3588 T-GSF πιστεως G4102 N-GSF
σωσει G4982 V-FAI-3S τον G3588 T-ASM καμνοντα G2577 V-PAP-ASM και G2532 CONJ
εγερει
G1453 V-FAI-3S
αυτον G846 P-ASM ο G3588 T-NSM κυριος
G2962 N-NSM καν G2579 COND-C
αμαρτιας G266 N-APF η G5600 V-PXS-3S
πεποιηκως G4160 V-RAP-NSM
αφεθησεται G863 V-FPI-3S
αυτω G846 P-DSM
Joh_16:21 – Once a Child is
Produced she Doesn't Remember her Sadness Anymore
Joh_16:21 η G3588 T-NSF
γυνη G1135 N-NSF οταν G3752 CONJ τικτη
G5088 V-PAS-3S λυπην G3077 N-ASF
εχει G2192 V-PAI-3S οτι G3754 CONJ ηλθεν
G2064 V-2AAI-3S η G3588 T-NSF ωρα G5610 N-NSF
αυτης G846 P-GSF οταν G3752 CONJ δε G1161 CONJ γεννηση G1080 V-AAS-3S το G3588 T-ASN παιδιον G3813 N-ASN ουκετι
G3765 ADVαβ ουκ G3756 PRT-Nτσ ετι G2089 ADVτσ μνημονευει G3421 V-PAI-3S της G3588 T-GSF θλιψεως G2347 N-GSF [Mat_24:21] δια G1223 PREP την G3588 T-ASF χαραν
G5479 N-ASF οτι G3754 CONJ εγεννηθη G1080 V-API-3S
ανθρωπος G444 N-NSM εις G1519 PREP τον G3588 T-ASM
κοσμον
G2889 N-ASM
>>>>> [Mat_24:21]
Other dates (seen previously); 3/14/17; 1/29/18
Pro_3:12 - Scourges every received son
Heb_12:6-12 - Quotes Pro_3:12 LXX (not the Heb. MT)
Pro_13:20 - Companion of fools
Pro_13:24 - No rod = hate son
Pro_19:18 (also: Pro_19:19) – Punish while hope (MT: 'no spare for crying')
Pro_20:11 - LXX: youth restrained (MT: 'children can know')
Pro_22:6 - Not in LXX (MT: ‘train up’)
Pro_22:15 - Folly bound up... rod
Pro_23:13-14 - He will not die
Pro_23:24, etc. - LXX: Righteous father brings up well; LXX & MT: father of wise = joy (Pro_27:11)
Pro_29:15 - LXX: Erring child (MT: Left to himself) = shame
Pro_29:17 - Correct son, he give you good
[Pro_29:19 – servant can’t be child-corrected with words…]
Eph_6:1-4 - Children obey... Father's... no provoking... but discipline
[Pro_20:30 - LXX: bad happens to bad (MT: blueness of wound)]
Deu_25:2 WEB
and it shall be, if the wicked man be worthy to be beaten, that
the judge shall cause him to lie down, and to be beaten before his face,
according to his wickedness, by number.
Deu_25:2 LB
then it shall come to pass, if the unrighteous should be worthy
of stripes, you shall lay him down before the judges, and they shall scourge
him before them according to his iniquity.
Deu_25:2 καὶ ἔσται
ἐὰν ἄξιος ᾖ
πληγῶν ὁ ἀσεβῶν,
καὶ καθιεῖς αὐτὸν
ἔναντι τῶν
κριτῶν καὶ
μαστιγώσουσιν
αὐτὸν ἐναντίον
αὐτῶν κατὰ τὴν ἀσέβειαν
αὐτοῦ ἀριθμῷ.
Many Other date(s) (seen below); 9/9/19 (Major
Reformating/Revission); 10/20/19
Bar Mitzvah
Bar Mitzvah is when a male child in Jewish culture comes of age. Although most observe this at 13 today, it seems to have been originally recognized at 12 years old–which is what Jesus, His parents, and monotheistic society observed and recognized in Luk_2:42. (Note the appropriate significance of 12 among Monotheists.)
No Bat
Mitzvah, Only Transfer or Dismissal
It should be noted that women do not come of age. Women do not have a bar mitzvah, and it is only more recently in history that apostate liberals have invented a shameful bat mitzvah in their degradation of women. Any concept like this is liberal and unfounded in Biblical history. While boys become men, girls are transferred from their fathers to their husbands (See all of Num_30 ). Women only become independent when their men are out of the picture (example: death or abandonment).
Honoring
Parents is Life-Long
It is also important to note that while boys “graduate” into becoming men, from being under authority to becoming authorities, no son or daughter ever graduates from honoring their parents (Eph_6:1-3; Col_3:20).
When you are a child, honoring parents especially includes obeying them, and when you are an adult it includes providing for them / giving them money/value -- as seen in Divorce and Remarriage Repentance Revolution).
· Appointed time by father (or sometimes their current authority, if adopted for example?) -- Gal_4
·
Not being under tutors or
guardians (i.e. no need/dependence upon being under supervision) -- Gal_4
(comp. Jesus stayed in a city by Himself -- Luk_2)
· Autonomous Responsibility (which is prerequisite for Autonomous Authority) -- seen throughout numerous passages below
· Put away childish things -- 1Co_13
Gal_4:1-2 – the time appointed by the father
Happens to boys,
including gentiles
[Also note that ‘a son is like a slave’ in Gal_4:1 and Sir_3:7 (where “Sir” =
“Sirach”)]
(A) ἐπιτρόπους: Mat_20:3, Luk_8:3; LXX: 2Ma_11:1 (p. 515 NETS); 2Ma_13:2; 2Ma_14:2
(B) οἰκονόμους: Rom_2:12-16, Rom_2:25-29, etc.
1Co_13:11 – Grown Men: put away childish things
Notice that lots of kids want to be treated like adults but aren’t as zealous for the properly correlating responsibility of adulthood.
9/13/19; 10/20/19
Child Play is Biblical & Distinct
Zec_8:4 WEB Thus says Yahweh of Armies: "Old
men and old women will again dwell in the streets of Jerusalem,
every man with his staff in his hand for very age.
Zec_8:4 Thus says the Lord Almighty: ‘There
shall yet dwell old men and old women in the streets of
Jerusalem, everyone holding his staff in his hand for age.
Zec_8:4 τάδε λέγει
κύριος
παντοκράτωρ Ἔτι
καθήσονται
πρεσβύτεροι
καὶ πρεσβύτεραι
ἐν ταῖς πλατείαις
Ιερουσαλημ, ἕκαστος
τὴν ῥάβδον αὐτοῦ
ἔχων ἐν τῇ χειρὶ
αὐτοῦ ἀπὸ πλήθους
ἡμερῶν·
Zec_8:5 WEB The streets of the city will be full
of boys [יְלָדִ֖ים
(y'ladiyM) ] and girls [וִֽילָד֑וֹת
(viyladOT) ] playing [מְשַׂחֲקִ֖ים
(m'SaHakiyM)] in its streets."
Zec_8:5 And the broad
places of the city shall be filled with boys [παιδαρίων] and girls [κορασίων] playing [παιζόντων] in its streets.’
Zec_8:5 καὶ αἱ
πλατεῖαι τῆς πόλεως
πλησθήσονται
παιδαρίων καὶ
κορασίων παιζόντων
ἐν ταῖς πλατείαις
αὐτῆς.
Zec_8:6 WEB Thus says Yahweh of Armies: "If
it is marvelous in the eyes of the remnant of this people in those days, should
it also be marvelous in my eyes?" says Yahweh of Armies.
Zec_8:6 Thus says the Lord Almighty: ‘If it shall
be impossible in the sight of the remnant of this people in those days, shall
it also be impossible in My sight?’” Says the Lord Almighty.
Zec_8:6 τάδε
λέγει κύριος
παντοκράτωρ
Διότι εἰ ἀδυνατήσει
ἐνώπιον τῶν
καταλοίπων τοῦ
λαοῦ τούτου ἐν
ταῖς ἡμέραις ἐκείναις,
μὴ καὶ ἐνώπιον ἐμοῦ
ἀδυνατήσει; λέγει
κύριος
παντοκράτωρ.
This blessing of (happy) “playing” children in the streets is idealized as a beautiful restoration of redeemed society in Jerusalem.
Notice that there is something distinct between child play and adult activity in society which is being idealized in this passage.
Adult Playing Examples
· “Playing” Instruments
· Worship/dancing like David (“ומשׂחק”/παίζοντα in 1Ch 15:29 -- same as Zec_8:5 Heb/Gr)
· This “playing” terminology works in Hebrew Greek and English.
· Marriage celebration like Isaac
Child Play vs Adult Play
· Healthy child play particularly means creatively practicing things that get you ready for being an adult.
· Healthy adult play means celebrating good things worthy of praise and happiness.
· Adults can also “creatively practice things” to gain new skills and such, but this is usually called gym-nize/exercise/train in the Bible.
· While adults are said to “play” in the Bible
· There is a required social transition if a Monotheist was to pass from being a Zec_8:5 child to a Zec_8:4 older man or woman.
· These comparisons are generalizations, but they still effectively help us consider the distinct social realities between children and grown-ups.
The Mockery of Childing
a Man
· Law of Moses prescribes it as a shaming punishment for some guilty men (ex. Deu_22)
· If done to a holy man it deserves death: 2Ki_2:23, etc.
For the concept (and language) of “Autonomy” See: Rom_2:
Num_30:2 – “Of Age” Means you're personally
responsible for your own actions, especially in view of God's Law
(See all of Num_30:1-16)
1Co_11:3 – The head / authority of every (grown)
man [ἀνδρὸς]
is Anointed One (“Christ”) (while the head of woman is still man, even after
she is “grown”)
Greek: ἀνδρὸς – this does not
include boys [παῖδας],
girls [παιδισκῶν],
or even women [γυναῖκές],
but every MAN [ἀνδρὸς].
Joh_9:20-21 – parents: He is of
age... He will speak for himself
The Jewish Coming of Age
Luk_2:40-52
·
Luk_2:7 – Jesus Born
·
Luk_2:22-24 – Jesus dedicated as a child
· Luk_2:42 – Twelve years old
·
Luk_2:46-47 – Jesus did Bar Mitzvah
· Luk_2:51 – Voluntary, re-subjection to parents
Mar_3:20-21 –
Mother & brothers incited against Jesus
Mar_3:31-34 – Jesus acts contrary to His mother's wishes
1Ki_2:19 –
Solomon honors her
1Ki_2:20-25 – Solomon does not yield his male authority as king to his mother
Gen_43:1-5 – Judah made conditions
Luk_15:11-13 – The younger brother made a choice…
Luk_15:25-32 – The older brother also had a choice…
5/30/16
Esther -- of course this is the case with girls, but she did so even after being married off!
Recobites
Patriarchs: Isaac
submitting even unto death!
Ishmael
to his mom? (partly)
Jacob to Rebecca
Jesus’ re-subjection
When Boys Fail to Become Men…
When to spank and when not to
spank society?
Correction ≠ Violence
· Adult Spanking/Correction/Punishment is not "destroying men's lives" or “violence” by very definition
Law of Moses – you will
chastise him (lit. child)
Ezra & Nehemiah
Proverbs – Slave & Fool punishment
Jesus throwing out money changers
Mat_21:12-17; Mar_11:15-19; Luk_19:45-48; Joh_2:13-16
Limitation: masters give up threatening (and turning the other cheek in general…)
Other dates; 3/10/17-3/13/17
Luk_1:23-44; Luk_1:56-58
2Ki_16:3;
2Ki_23:10;
2Ch_33:6;
Eze_16:20-21
Others:
2Ki_17:17; Lev_18:21, Lev_20:2; Deu_12:31,
Deu_18:10; Psa_106:37; Psa_106:38; Jer_32:35 – Such murder never even came into God’s mind to do; Eze_16:21, Eze_20:26, Eze_20:31
It
goes without saying that the Bible opposes murder of every kind, even
specifically including abortion.
Abortion
is murder. Killing a baby inside of the womb is no less murder than
killing one outside, and murderers do not go to Heaven, (1Jo 3:15) unless they
repent from being a murderer.
The
Bible says that killing a baby inside the womb is a murder worthy of death,
therefore, it is a murder worthy of death: Exo 21:22-25; Rom 1:32. Many other times as well,
the Bible recognizes that a baby in the womb is alive and even capable of
spiritual activity: Lk 1:24, 26, 36, 39-44, 56-57
Of
course, I would never be the one to cast a stone to enforce such a just death
penalty, lest I also be found to have been a murderer in my heart at one time
in my past, (and so condemn myself). [These things are verified in these
Scriptures: Mat 5:21-22;
1John 3:15; John 8:7; Luk 9:56]. In fact, I would
feel privileged to have a part in helping someone recover from participating in
such a horrible experience.
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